One of the best pieces if advice I've heard about marriage, and I mean actual real marriage, not sham marriage, is 'don't take turns' at housekeeping jobs; if something is to be done, just do it without fuss, point scoring or recrimination. And that goes for both parties.
Another basic piece of advice: when you marry, you do not marry one person, you marry a family. Unless your spouse to be is adamantly cut off from their family, then they will be your family too. So if it contains members who you cannot respect, let alone love and sacrifice for; the marriage will bring more misery than joy.
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